Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson and Ellen have started a new podcast!

Integrated is for entrepreneurial couples who want both a high-impact career and an exceptional partnership. Jayson and Ellen blend cutting-edge relationship science with decades of coaching experience to help you balance leadership at home and in business, fostering deeper connection and lasting success.

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In this episode Jayson and Ellen talk about five reasons why being a team is so hard. How do culture and personal history impact teamwork? Is your sense of entitlement holding you back from effective collaboration? How can differences between people make for a stronger team? Find the answers to these questions and more in this episode!

Timestamps:

• 1:00 - 5 reasons why being a team is so hard
• 1:47 - Cultural backdrop
• 7:00 - Personal history
• 11:49 - Your entitlement
• 16:56 - Differences
• 20:41 - Sharing leadership takes time

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What’s wrong with going into fix-it mode when someone shares their problems?

Jayson explains why it’s better to offer understanding rather than jumping in with solutions—and how people are more likely to come up with their own answers when they feel truly heard.

Timestamps:

• 0:03 - What's wrong with "fix-it" mode?
• 3:49 - Reflecting instead of fixing
• 7:08 - Giving people space to come up with their own solutions
• 8:30 - Understanding first, then solutions

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How should you coach someone who wants to be in a successful relationship? Jayson breaks it down. Do you need to have successful relationships yourself to coach effectively? How can you teach your clients the skills they need to develop, and what does that process look like? Don’t miss this insightful episode.

Timestamps:

• 0:36 - You have to have successful relationships
• 7:05 - Skill acquisition
• 13:27 - Don't be uncomfortable with intimacy

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Jayson breaks down motivational interviewing. What is it? Can you force your clients to change? What should you do if a client is ambivalent about change? Is your client placing value on the right things? Whether you're a coach or a client, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode.

Timestamps:

• 1:50 - Placing value on the right things
• 3:34 - Motivational interviewing
• 5:57 - Ambivalence about change
• 11:37 - You can't force people to change

Links:

• Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) 
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Jayson explores the pros and cons of coaching. Is coaching more effective than therapy? He discusses the lack of standards in coaching, the absence of trauma training, and the potential shallowness of the approach. Jayson also examines why prioritizing results over feelings can be problematic. However, he also highlights why coaching can sometimes be a better option than therapy. Why choose coaching? Tune in to find out.

Timestamps:

• 0:57 - A lack of standards
• 4:26 - Results over feelings
• 7:47 - Does coaching get better results?
• 14:10 - Conclusion

Links:

• Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) 
• Follow Jayson on social media:
  • Instagram
  • YouTube
  • LinkedIn
  • TikTok
  • Twitter
  • Facebook